Death

I am 35 now. Hoping to live to at least 80, I realise that my death can happen at any moment and definitely not at the right time. Failure to prepare and leave no instructions behind is a surefire way to cause turmoil and tension among my family and friends. I want to prevent that from happening.

This is a living document and will be updated when necessary. Last updated on 2025-12-20.

Will

I do not have an official will yet, but will look into it. All my belongings and funds will be inherited by my sister.

Digital Inheritance

I am looking into a way to have a setup that will insure this website keep being hosted. Also on the successor of the internet, if that ever happens.

People

All family and friends are invited to my funeral.

I was happy with every minute I spent with you, loved and cared for you as much as I could. I hope you do not regret knowing me as I was and will occasionally remember me in some funny context.

The same goes for my parents, who raised and nurtured me to be independent and resilient, able to survive even in the darkest of times. I do not hold any grudges, regardless of any disagreements or differences of opinion, because you are my family who somehow always want the best for me.

Ceremony

I want to be buried on a cemetery that is close to my loved ones. Have the service in a church. Preach the gospel of Jesus Christ.

You may use some particularly good photographs and videos from my archives as a slideshow at the service.

Play my favourite music:

Organ donation

I do not want anything from my body to be donated, I want to be buried intact. This decision is also registered in the Organ Donation Register from the Dutch government.

Afterwards

I want to be remembered by my resistance against the world. We live in this world, but are not of this world. Defy the powers of this world, resist it, I would be honoured. I hope that part of me stays instilled in your hearts.